“I have two kinds of jobs. One job is not profitable, but another job is profitable from time to time.”
I don’t know the man, but he spoke to me so familiarly that he may have known me for a long time.
I couldn’t see his face very well, but the way he spoke was somehow familiar.
He may be in the business of speaking to anyone.
No, it might be the other way around. He may have a job where he doesn’t talk to anyone. And I think it means that I was chosen.
Either way, he seemed busy.
- How intimacy is created
- Familiarity is one of the emotions necessary to strengthen the relationship with the other person. Affinity is built from a variety of factors, including trust, empathy, commonalities, and pleasant emotional experiences. Here are some common ways to create a sense of familiarity.
Find common interests: Having common interests and hobbies with the other person is very important to create a sense of belonging. By sharing interests with each other, empathy and understanding with each other will deepen.
Increase communication: To create a sense of intimacy, you need to communicate more with each other. Communication includes not only conversation but also showing interest in the other person and listening to what the other person has to say.
Increase Engagement: To deepen your relationship with your partner, you need to increase engagement. This includes working together and participating in joint projects.
Offer support: If the other person is going through a difficult situation, offering support can be a great way to build a sense of belonging. Helping others when they need help builds trust.
Develop your social skills: Developing your social skills is necessary to create a sense of familiarity. This includes communication and listening skills, and sensitivity to other people’s emotions.
As mentioned above, in order to foster a sense of intimacy, it is important to find common points with the other party, increase communication, and increase engagement. It is also effective to offer support when the other person needs it. Ultimately, honing your social skills is an essential part of creating a sense of familiarity.
— hiro (@hiro_osaka_jp) April 26, 2023
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