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Be invited to go drinking by someone

Because I didn’t invite anyone..... “I’m a big fan of my local baseball team. My dad loved baseball, so I wonder if that’s passed down to me.” It’s no surprise that traits and personalities can be inherited from parents to children, but I wonder if even hobbies can be inherited. In any case, one young man is a bright and cheerful man who is liked by everyone. He goes out drinking with people he meets for the first time about a week later. Sometimes he invites, sometimes he is invited by someone else. Why is continuity a fundamental element? Let’s reconfirm that the element of continuity is surprisingly a fundamental element. Because continuity is having a time axis, which constitutes a prerequisite for existence. The concept of something existing is actually only secured by a fragmentary memory. Your conception of existence is nothing more than a memory of a particular position at a particular time. Of course, going out drinking with...

Indicate that break time had begun

“Um, are you, I mean, you?” .... “where are you now?” It was a very short text message. The sender of that message is the person I should meet now. It had been decided in advance that I would meet him on the second floor of the building. I got off the elevator on the second floor, and there was a young woman standing there. She seemed to want to take the elevator down to the first floor. The elevator door closed after I got off, and it went up. I knew a meeting was starting in a room on the 8th floor, so I thought I’d have to go to the 8th floor. After waiting for the elevator to come down for a while, I headed to the 8th floor. What are the conditions for excellence or aesthetics to be embodied? It goes without saying that everyone wants a good theorem or a beautiful expression. But a single remark would destroy such an established theory. In other words, a finite amount of time must not be spent in order to embody excellence or aest...

Be not the other thing, but the one thing that has changed

She must have known that I had already confirmed the basic schedule for next month..... “I printed out your schedule for next month. Let me give it to you.” thank you. I thanked a woman in her early twenties. The woman’s specialty is that she can talk to someone while drinking vegetable juice. I think this is definitely a skill. What are the conditions for change to be recognized? Everyone knows that all things will change over time. However, certain conditions must be met for the change to be recognized. The condition is that the rate of change is appropriate. If change happens too quickly, we don’t perceive it as change. Rather, we think that something else happened. She puts the vegetable juice in her mouth and swallows it while her conversation partner sucks in air. While her conversation partner is speaking, she holds a glass of vegetable juice close to her face while one eye is looking at her conversation partner. Such a sequ...

Rule out phenomena that are not even quantifiable

I have never seen his wife and children..... “Good morning. I just wanted to clean this up this morning. How are you doing?” A man in his 40s, wearing a heavy tartan shirt, washes his favorite car. It looks like the dirt on his car has already been washed away. He held a spray bottle of yellow liquid and sprayed it onto the vehicle. I didn’t want to walk on the wet road, so I didn’t approach him and just returned a simple greeting. I saw him washing his car for the first time. Why is free thinking admired by everyone? Free thinking is admired by everyone. The basis for this is weak, but at least it is praised for its freedom of thought. Did you know that the origin of that trend is that free thinking is not quantifiable? Needless to say, the way of thinking since the modern era represents things quantitatively. Well, in layman’s terms, it’s called science. “I’m going out for a while. You’re going somewhere, aren’t you? Be careful.” ...

Walk up from the front and call out

So no one knows why he couldn’t meet his girl friend..... A young man was walking down the street with his friends when two young women walked up from the front and called out to the young man’s friends. The two women knew his friend, so they went into a nearby coffee shop together. The two women were both well-dressed and attractive, so the young man continued the conversation, looking for topics to talk about. The young men and women had a happy and noisy time. I don’t know which of the two women he was most interested in. What are the necessary conditions before discussion? The conditions under which all discussions, including agreement or even breakdown, can be established do not depend on the content of the discussion. We need a platform where all statements are valid or compatible before discussion. “Have you found a nice girl friend?” The next day, one of the young man’s associates heard rumors about yesterday and asked him fo...

Pave the way for recognizing the essence of things concretely

Either way she’s beautiful, just like she was ten years ago .... My impression of that one woman was that she was a young and beautiful married woman. But that impression is more than a decade old. Yesterday morning, someone called out to me, and when I turned around, a middle-aged woman was smiling at me. It took me about a second to realize who she was. I felt she changed her appearance. Her hair had a little bit of white in it, and her whole face had lost its luster. Still, she had a sweet smile on her face, and I was convinced that she was that beautiful married woman. What does it mean to be explicit? I wonder how it should be understood to be explicit. Being explicit paves the way for recognizing the essence of things concretely and physically rather than theoretically and abstractly. However, if clarifying the essence of something is a kind of technique, the technique must follow multiple procedures. “Good morning. Is there an...

Establish as the most effective response method

And what I noticed this morning was that the lenses of her glasses were tinted light pink..... “Good morning! Is it from now?” A lady speaks to me. I have no idea who she is. But maybe she knows me a little. No, on the contrary, I think she knows me very well. Because women share information about the details of many things. Does the methodology define its scope? When a methodology is used, its scope must be known. This is not to say that all methodologies are limited in the extent to which they work effectively. Rather, a methodology is established as the most effective response method within a certain scope of application. Good morning. It’s a little cold, isn’t it? It’s the first time I’ve talked to her about something other than greetings. Even though it usually ended with just a greeting But my conversation with her never started. She always rides her bike past the hangouts. I had no idea who she was, so I nev...

Stay here all day on that day

The inspector will probably bring in a catalog of new gas appliances.” .... “It’s two weeks from now, can anyone stay here all day on that day?” Let’s talk about two weeks later after two weeks. Are you telling someone to stay here all day on that day? “There’s a city gas inspection here. Someone has to attend to it.” “I refuse. I will probably be out somewhere that day.” What ensures efficacy? One answer is validation of effectiveness. Verification is nothing more than confirming the validity of a given concept by making it work under hypothetical conditions. Therefore, the wise always test every concept and trust its guaranteed validity. You’re the kind of person who lives every day without any plans, right? Why are you making plans for two weeks from now? “It is written that this equipment inspection is a legal obligation and will be carried out once every five years.” “Ignore that.” “We can’t do that. This is a legal obligation. So if this i...

Share by anyone unless it is expressed

It just happens that the face of someone whose emotions have weakened as a result of losing something just happens to resemble a smile..... It is 35 degrees 5 minutes Celsius. Don’t you feel that this body temperature is a little low? Come to think of it, it’s been a long time since the insistent practice of hand disinfection using an alcohol solution has been stopped here. In the first place, someone just brought an alcohol bottle and put it next to the entrance. I remember nobody specifically asking us to sanitize our hands. to whom does freedom belong? In order to discuss freedom, let us organize this proposition roughly. First, let’s divide general freedom and your freedom. Can you see that at this stage the debate is half settled? In other words, your freedom is your issue, so no one can share a discussion about it. How, then, can general freedom be defined? This is not limited to the concept of freedom, but freedom, like any other concept, is n...

See a brown-eyed man being called leader by someone

But just a few days later, she saw a brown-eyed man being called leader by someone..... “I have something to ask of you. Please give this memo to the leader. He already knows that he will receive the memo from me.” No one was sitting on the big chair in the far corner of the room. She realized the leader wasn’t around, so she whispered to a man sitting nearby. The man had dark hair, brown eyes, and was slightly confused. It may be because he suddenly received a request from a young woman. Her passing the note to the leader didn’t have to be shared with the whole room, so she didn’t speak louder than necessary. What is the basis of the team? It is a structural unit of this society that multiple people share a purpose and help each other. However, surprisingly, it is not known that the root of the procedure remains extremely analog. Face-to-face communication is the cornerstone of teams even today, when working styles that are not constrained by locati...

Be a collection of similarities, and each part resembles the whole

This story isn’t over anytime soon..... “My son is afraid of you. That’s why I came here instead of him.” That this young woman is the mother of a boy who is about seven years old, that the boy is afraid of a young woman who was a shopkeeper at a candy store, and that the boy bought a bundle of candies at this store. Nothing can be objectively proven. All that is certain is that in the evening a young woman appeared alone at the candy store and told the above story. How can the part and the whole be distinguished? How do you distinguish between the whole and the part? I wonder if we should rely only on ratios or quantitative magnitude relationships. As a tendency, the parts are concrete, and the whole has an abstract color. As a practical treatment, therefore, we conceive the whole on the basis of the parts. A woman who claims to be the mother of a boy who is not here has complained about the quantity of candy sold at the store, though she does not s...

Test positive, other members of the family are also potential carriers

“We don’t care, do we?” .... “It seems that the man’s older brother has tested positive for the PCR test. That’s why he hasn’t been here for a long time.” No one knows who that man is. So I don’t really know if the man is a close contact with us. According to a notice from the local public health center, families in the same household are basically recognized as having close contact with each other. So if a family member tests positive, other members of the family are also potential carriers. Therefore, all family members must stay home and undergo appropriate examinations. What is understanding? When understanding something, the object must not be minute. Information with a strict structure is generally not understood. Because understanding is imaginary association of the gaps between elements, and we cannot comprehend a structure without gaps. But what if a member of that family showed up here often, excited about the results of soccer games, and ...

Be about ten years older than this young man

“You know this! If you make a fool of me, I’ll kill you!” .... “I think she’s a pretty woman, both in appearance and in character. Don’t you think so?” Oops, what a bad joke, right? A young man said that she had a cute personality. She is a well-known bitch around this street. I wonder if this innocent young man is starting to fall in love with her. If so, the tragedy will begin again. What are the prerequisites for having feelings? The premise of all emotions is that they are in intimate relationship with the object. This may seem strange at first glance. Because we are always friendly with those who are close to us. The bitch is about ten years older than this young man. Over the decades she has mastered the art of tricking men. And she, she keeps fooling guys like you who don’t know the cunning of women. She certainly looks young. But only if there is a man nearby. When there is no one of the opposite sex around her, she suddenly looks old. Do y...

Think that all events constitute a cause, and instantly memorize them

Tonight, I’m peering under a shelf or in a locker looking for an item, and I wonder if she’s starting to memorize my actions in detail..... “Some people were chatting here that night, so maybe that distracted you.” I cannot memorize clearly what happened two days ago. No, I have no desire to do that. It wasn’t just her memorization that impressed me. This is because she memorizes in detail the actions of people other than her. I wonder if she’s good at tracing her memories. Or I wonder if she always intends to memorize the events in front of her. If she has the latter attitude, why would she do that? How do you know you are getting closer to your goals? It goes without saying that one measure of effort is to obtain a certain level of evaluation objectively. By getting some positive feedback, we feel we are getting closer to our goals. But these days, goals often change. A goal is not like a mountain, it’s like an ocean wave. In such a case, we canno...

Want to talk macroscopically

“What are you doing here? I don’t understand.” .... “Yesterday, I received an instruction, but I didn’t quite understand what it meant. What do you mean by not having to send the notification message that the procedure is completed?” “We want to regulate transactions to reduce server load. Completion of procedures is caught on another channel, so the person in charge does not have to report it.” “Don’t you know that procedural inadequacies or additional work often occur within approximately 48 hours of completing a procedure? Minor procedures tend to occur immediately after completion.” “So what?” What is the structure of reasoning? All logic is thought to be consistent and rational, but that is only a macroscopic view. Microscopically, logic is a series of small leaps. There is no consistency or rationality in it. However, reasoning to advance logic consists of prediction and deception. Because they are so small, they are regarded as prima facie log...

Be the mastermind behind ostracizing me

Because if the righteous man doesn’t know what to do, it’s enough for him to just start crying..... “Everyone’s ostracizing me! That young woman is the mastermind behind ostracizing me.” A middle-aged woman is crying. Of course it’s a lie. She can easily let out her tears. The most unlucky person is a man who listens intently to her. He is deceived by her false crying and assumes that something serious has happened. What positions are favorable for negotiations? The minimum conditions for bargaining to extract favorable terms relate to the premises of the bargaining rather than the bargaining itself. In other words, those who can secure a channel for negotiations will absolutely be able to advance the negotiations to their advantage. “Please punish that young woman. I am suffering from being left out.” According to her, the ringleader of the bullying incident was a young woman. She organizes the whole office to torment middle-aged women. Despite thi...

Make for us to perceive

Whoa, what does that mean? .... “He hasn’t come back here yet. I wonder when he’ll come back. I’m going to ask him to buy me dinner tonight!” In her early twenties, she always wears light sportswear and has small wireless earbuds in her ears. Her head is like an onion because her short hair is dyed gold. Cool girl, I think one of my specialties is being able to talk with people around me while listening to music with earphones. Even though sometimes the conversation is weird Checking out her simple dance choreography in front of the big mirror at the entrance of the hangout, she glances at me as she waits for the generous man to return. Why are natural phenomena so mysterious? The world as we perceive it is not made for us to perceive. By nature, our perceptual faculties are so capricious that we can perceive only what is easy for us to perceive. That is why the world is always an object that is easy for us to understand. But I wonder if this is all ...