Once upon a time, there was a man who kept looking for love. He had been married twice before, and both marriages had ended in divorce. But he was determined to find the perfect woman, the one who would make him happy for the rest of his life.
One day, he met a woman who was going through a divorce herself. She had a young child, and the man was immediately smitten. They quickly fell in love and got married.
At first, the man was happy. He loved his new wife and her child. But it wasn’t long before he started to get restless. He was used to being the center of attention, and he didn’t like sharing his wife with her child.
He started to become more and more violent. He would yell at his wife and her child, and sometimes he would even hit them. His wife was terrified, but she didn’t know what to do. She was afraid to leave him, because she didn’t want to lose her child.
One day, the man’s wife finally had enough. She packed up her bags and left him, taking her child with her. The man was devastated. He couldn’t believe that his wife had left him.
But he didn’t give up on love. He started looking for a new wife, and he eventually found one. She was a younger woman, and she didn’t have any children. The man was thrilled. He thought that he had finally found the perfect woman.
But the same thing happened again. The man started to become violent, and his wife eventually left him.
The man was heartbroken. He couldn’t understand why he couldn’t keep a wife. He started to think that he was cursed.
One day, the man was sitting at his desk, looking at a photo of his smiling toddler. He realized that he was missing out on the most important thing in life: his child.
He decided to change his ways. He started going to therapy, and he learned how to control his anger. He also started spending more time with his child.
It wasn’t easy, but the man eventually changed his life. He became a better person, and he finally found true love. He fell in love with a woman who had two children of her own, and they all lived happily ever after.
Why is a shared goal for the future important?
A shared goal for the future gives us something to work towards together. It provides a sense of purpose and meaning to our daily lives. It also helps us to stay motivated and focused on our long-term goals.
The man in the story didn’t have a shared goal for the future with any of his wives. That’s why his marriages all failed. But when he realized that he wanted to be a better father to his child, he finally found a shared goal that he could work towards with his wife. And that’s why their marriage succeeded.
How can we create a shared goal for the future?
Communicate with each other and share our individual goals and aspirations. Identify common goals and interests. Work together to create a shared vision for the future. Develop a plan to achieve our shared goal. Celebrate our progress and successes along the way.
When we have a shared goal for the future, we are more likely to be successful in our relationships and in our lives.
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