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The secret of marital harmony is an argument

There is nothing in particular.  As the words "I have only one meeting", I always have a stance that "it may be the last time to talk about a joke like this." I always want to have such an attitude. If it is a miracle to meet, goodbye is inevitable. Such a dry way of thinking is at the root of my human relationship. When talking with people under certain circumstances, the conversation may be established even if the meaning of the words is not understood. For example, in the workplace, when the same work is repeated, there is no need for a new explanation. The work begins and ends with the same whispering exchange as usual. Well, co-workers are not the first people to meet, so there is no need to execute the first ceremony, the protocol. What I would like to say is that conversations are often in the form of barrages. In a good sense, the minds are in touch. In a bad way, they are familiar. It becomes a problem when an irregular occurs.

March 25, 2019. It was at 8 am. Come on, I feel very sad to say goodbye to people. The words “I don’t want to say goodbye” are embarrassing, but I don’t want to say too much “we’re goodbye today, goodbye, good health,” when parting at work, school or various relationships. First of all, I may meet with that person again. Besides, even if I can not see the person, I have nothing to say.

There is nothing in particular.

As the words “I have only one meeting”, I always have a stance that “it may be the last time to talk about a joke like this.” I always want to have such an attitude. If it is a miracle to meet, goodbye is inevitable. Such a dry way of thinking is at the root of my human relationship.

When talking with people under certain circumstances, the conversation may be established even if the meaning of the words is not understood. For example, in the workplace, when the same work is repeated, there is no need for a new explanation. The work begins and ends with the same whispering exchange as usual. Well, co-workers are not the first people to meet, so there is no need to execute the first ceremony, the protocol.

What I would like to say is that conversations are often in the form of barrages. In a good sense, the minds are in touch. In a bad way, they are familiar. It becomes a problem when an irregular occurs.

Everyone around you must share what is happening when a non-stationary situation happens, but then you have to explain in words that everyone can understand. I think this is not easy. Well, of course, there are many who think that “it is easy to explain because you speak the same language”. However, if something does not happen, it is not clear how people perceive the meaning and definition of words. It is because each person’s sense of meaning should be slightly different. The situation becomes serious if an accident occurs in the gap or inconsistencies. I think.

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Well, I recently heard that there are people who can not communicate well, but I think that is important. That’s because communication is not easy. If the meanings, definitions, and images possessed by each other are not as identical as possible, even if they communicate, it is only a misunderstanding.

It is good when there is nothing. When something irregular happens and you have to respond urgently, it will take time to reconfirm your thinking if you do not share the same awareness. I think so, though.

misunderstanding
Yes:respond urgently
it will take time
something irregular happens !
share the same awareness?
reconfirm
good

So I think it is necessary to sometimes clash and show each other’s true spirit. Mistakes are only preserved if we only get along. I can say that such organizations are vulnerable to crisis.

That’s right, to conclude, the secret of marital harmony is an argument. Today is over. goodbye

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