The man’s phone was always left in the middle of his desk. It was covered in mugs, donut halves, tissue paper, and permanent marker pens. The wallpaper on the phone was a photo of a smiling toddler. The toddler was the man’s new child.
The man had remarried last year and suddenly had a toddler. His current wife had also been divorced once. They had met through a dating app for divorced people with children.
The man’s first wife had divorced him because of his violence. He had been physically and emotionally abusive to her. However, he was able to remarry soon after the divorce to another woman with a child.
The man was now looking for a third wife. He had been on several dating apps, but he had not had much luck. He was starting to think that he would never find someone who would accept him and his two children.
One day, the man was browsing through a dating app when he came across a profile that caught his eye. The woman was beautiful and seemed kind and intelligent. She also had a child, which was a plus for the man.
The man sent the woman a message and they started talking. They quickly hit it off and started dating. After a few months, they fell in love and got married.
The man was finally happy. He had found a woman who loved him and his children. He was no longer looking for a third wife.
The man and his new wife lived happily ever after. They raised their children together and supported each other through thick and thin. They were a perfect match and they were finally able to live the life they had always wanted.
Setting and Revising Goals
The man in the story had a clear purpose for setting goals: he wanted to find a third wife. He defined specific goals by determining the qualities he was looking for in a wife. He conducted a situation analysis by assessing his current situation and any external factors that may affect his goal attainment. He broke down his goals into milestones by setting clear deadlines for each step. He determined action steps by defining the specific things he needed to do to achieve each milestone. He monitored and measured progress by tracking his progress towards his goals and milestones. He reviewed and revised his goals by periodically reviewing his goals and milestones to ensure they were still relevant and aligned with his overall vision. He communicated and engaged by sharing his goals with his wife and other relevant stakeholders. He celebrated achievements by acknowledging and celebrating milestones achieved along the way.
The man in the story was able to achieve his goal of finding a third wife by following these steps. He was able to identify his purpose, define specific goals, conduct a situation analysis, break down goals into milestones, determine action steps, monitor and measure progress, review and revise goals, communicate and engage, and celebrate achievements.
— hiro (@hiro_osaka_jp) July 5, 2023
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