I do not know the black box and the input information that goes into it. In fact, if you don't become that person, you can not understand that person's feelings. If you look from a different angle, when you become a person, you will think and act like that person. Isn't it a position? So, you are ultimately responsible for your judgments and actions. Because you are the one who manages you. So, even if people are in trouble, they can not be helped. That's because only the person understands the input information of why I am troubled and the contents of the black box of how I handle it. So, if someone carelessly advises, it will only be noise for those who are troubled. If a familiar person is suffering and suffering, it is best to leave it alone. I think that is the shortest distance to the solution. And when you are troubled with something, don't listen to others' advice. I think you should only listen to your own voice, but what do you think? ...