Good morning. Yesterday, a young man I knew was smoking an unfamiliar cigarette. I forgot the brand name, but it was a brown cigarette that smelled like a cigar. Sweet smell. So, he said, “This cigarette has not been released for about a year. I’m smoking because the release has been resumed.”
People’s minds are black boxes, and we can not but judge the inside from the output information
Is a cigarette so good that people wait for a year? I asked him, “Isn’t it a cigarette and not a cigar?” But he seemed to know less. That may be common. Smokers may not have much knowledge about tobacco.
There are many articles used daily without knowledge. For example, we use a smartphone, so can we assemble a smartphone? It is impossible. I think there are few people who can explain why smartphones have useful functions and move. However, it can be used even if it can not be explained. Use without understanding. I think this is not a problem staying on the smartphone alone.
Isn’t that the case of people? Why do you think so? Why do you feel this way? Although I do not understand these processes, I have experienced those results. Based on the information of such output, we assemble judgment and action.
People’s minds are black boxes, and we can not but judge the inside from the output information. I do not know the black box and the input information that goes into it.
In fact, if you don’t become that person, you can not understand that person’s feelings
If you look from a different angle, when you become a person, you will think and act like that person. Isn’t it a position? So, you are ultimately responsible for your judgments and actions. Because you are the one who manages you.
So, even if people are in trouble, they can not be helped. That’s because only the person understands the input information of why I am troubled and the contents of the black box of how I handle it. So, if someone carelessly advises, it will only be noise for those who are troubled. If a familiar person is suffering and suffering, it is best to leave it alone. I think that is the shortest distance to the solution.
And when you are troubled with something, don’t listen to others’ advice. I think you should only listen to your own voice, but what do you think?
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Yes, there are a lot of troubled people around me. There is no one without trouble. Before I worry, I am interested in the content of the trouble and I do not relatively bother. Fortunately for this optimistic nature, I do not have much trouble. I am interested in that because people and the world’s mechanisms may become apparent through their troubles. What about such a character? I may see myself as something else. Yes, we are one of the others. I do not understand well. You do not need to know. Everything is in the black box. goodbye
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