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Disappear loneliness within a group, but such a group is socially lonely

“It was hard to do today because there weren’t many customers.” ....

“So how many sets of hot dogs do you think I sold after all? 14 sets.”

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He brilliantly bragged about his grades. When asked if you sold 14 in 4 hours, he replied yes, only 4 hours.
Initially I thought it was 8 hours. If it is 14 in 8 hours, it is in the normal range. However, he sold 14 in four hours. Certainly he is excellent.
By the way, he has an older brother, who is 21 years old. If so, he may be less than 20 years old as a hot dog sales genius.
In any case, I often meet him in the hangout at midnight. On rainy days, he often stays in the hangout looking for someone to talk to.

Should I be ashamed of my fear of loneliness?

In general we try to forget loneliness by joining the community. This is not a mistake.
Our fear of loneliness is justified. Rather, we should be afraid of a heart that is not afraid of loneliness.
Now, the question is, can those who join the community really forget about loneliness?
Of course, as long as you adhere to certain contracts, you will be guaranteed your companions. But I wonder if that’s the end of the story.
I don’t think the story is over. Because what happens if your fellow members are disconnected from their surroundings?
A group that is disconnected from the surroundings is a lonely group. Loneliness disappears within a group, but such a group is socially lonely.
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Fortunately, I don’t know

what skills are needed to sell hot dogs. But I know some tips.
For example, hot dogs cooked by him are often not warm. Also, it often does not contain lettuce.
Maybe he doesn’t care about the taste or temperature of the product at all. But, or because of that, the goods offered by him sold 14 pieces in 4 hours. The result is unwavering.
“It was hard to do today because there weren’t many customers.”

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